Too Busy

Why is Emm always so busy? I understand that she has a lot on her plate at the moment. That much is obvious. But I mean, just to meet up and say "hi" or anything like that. Why is this so difficult? She is able to make time for those other friends of hers. What does she thinkg of me? We had a bit of an argument as she said "don't push it." What does that mean? That she's threatening to walk away from a 3-year friendship because I honestly feel that we're not as close as I had hoped? This is so confusing!